How to prepare children for school? These 9 tips will help you!
Starting school is a significant milestone in a child's and parent's lives. To ensure this transition from kindergarten to school goes as smoothly as possible, preparing children for school responsibilities during the holidays is essential. In this article, we bring you advice from Ms Sarah Johnson, an elementary school teacher, who shared with us how to handle the start of school playfully and without stress.
A positive approach is key
Parents play a crucial role in creating the first impression of school. Talk about school positively and avoid scaring the children. Prepare them for the fact that school is where they will learn new and exciting things, meet new friends, and experience new adventures. “First and foremost, I consider it important that parents speak about school mainly in positive contexts. I would recommend avoiding scaring the children,” stated Ms Sarah Johnson.
Gradual Introduction of a Routine
School brings an organised daily routine, which can initially be challenging for first graders. Start a simple daily routine during the holidays. For example, waking up at the same time, having breakfast together, and spending time reading or drawing. It helps children get used to regularity and prepares them for the school schedule. “A first grader gradually gets into tasks at school, which is a big change compared to kindergarten, where they had virtually no obligations. Therefore, to ensure this change goes smoothly, it is recommended that future first graders gradually encounter small tasks, even during the holidays. It prepares them for the responsibility that will be emphasised during school. The hardest part for first graders, and students in general, is to adjust to the organisation if their free days were entirely unstructured,” noted Ms Sarah Johnson.
Small Tasks During the Holidays
Future first graders can tackle small tasks during the holidays. Educational games such as colouring books, puzzles, or playdough help develop fine motor skills and simultaneously prepare the child for writing. Try simple tasks like counting objects at home or reading short stories.
Motivation to Learn
“We can stimulate motivation to learn in various ways. For lower grades, I recommend going to a bookstore or library where students can choose any age-appropriate book. Motivation to read is often influenced by the example set. Try to motivate the child with mutual reading – I’ll read to you, you read to me. Try reading a story to your brother. I’ll read my book, and you read yours, and then we’ll share what we learned. Other recommendations include colouring books, playing with playdough, or basic self-care activities (helping in the kitchen or the garden – simple tasks). These activities help develop the motor skills crucial for writing. The child develops and prepares for this activity without realising they are learning. Various worksheets are also available that motivate children to engage in activities due to their colourful nature,” said Ms Sarah Johnson.
Addressing Fears and Anxieties
If a child fears starting school, it is essential to talk about them and show understanding. Assure them that it is okay to be afraid of something new and that parents and teachers are there to help them. “From the first day, the parent becomes a part of the school with the first grader. The teacher and parent are the most important elements that jointly shape the student. I dare say that cooperation and communication between the parent and teacher are the most important aspects through which a student can make progress. If a parent has any doubts or concerns, I recommend asking the teacher,” stated Ms Sarah Johnson.
Educational Toys and Tools
Invest in educational toys that support learning through play. “There are a lot of educational toys available, and they offer great comprehensive development for the child. Here, I recommend looking at functionality and ensuring it has an educational character. When preparing future first graders, it is great and even recommended that we use tools commonly available in our households. For math, I’ll give a simple example from school: 1+1 - one pencil and one pencil together. Two pencils, and so on,” mentioned Ms Sarah Johnson.
Don’t Take Away Their Holidays
“Future first graders will learn to read, write, and count. I would not take away their holidays but allocate some time for responsibilities. An hour a day – write two sentences, read three pages, solve a math problem, mainly to establish a routine,” suggested the teacher.
Don’t Compare Children
“In the first grade, it’s important not to compare children. The maturation of the central nervous system is very individual at this age, and if the first half-year is a struggle, do not lose faith in your child’s abilities. The first grade requires diligence and patience from parents as well. My advice is also not to compare teachers. Each teacher is unique, and if you have any doubts – ask and communicate with her,” advised Ms Sarah Johnson.
Motivate and Praise
“And that too for small successes. Small successes will build up to more. The first grade will also be a challenge for parents, as you will establish a ‘post-school’ routine at home. Believe me, you’ll get used to it, and it will become easier over time,” concluded Ms Sarah Johnson.
An experienced elementary school teacher provided these tips, having taught first graders. We believe they will help you prepare your child for school responsibilities and that the first school year will be successful and joyful for everyone.
